Seeking “the one” can be addictive.
I had powerful dreams last night that led me to realize I am not attracted to people because I want to merely have sex... Read More
Today provided a reprieve from the melancholy state of the past few days.
My love and I saw our therapist this morning—a timely appointment, indeed. Again, this... Read More
As I was re-reading a few posts from the later double-digit days in the project, I got a major slap in the face.
Up until the five-month mark, I was fully single. From... Read More
I truly think everything is about programming.
In relationships, we are programmed to be attached, and therefore jealous, or perhaps commitmentphobic.
Just imagine if we... Read More
Just because I hurt does not mean I need to pull away, protect myself, or love less.
I can love and trust my partner, even while in pain.
In the past, I used the word... Read More
I am so absolutely in love and joyous about my romantic relationship. In each present moment, our love and our life together is beyond wonderful.
And yet …
There... Read More
I just realized I’m engaging in an open relationship.
The primary relationship I’ve been cultivating throughout the entirety of this celibacy project has... Read More
In relationships, and in life, I’d rather take flight than fight.
I just got a taste of my own medicine. Just last night I wrote about my need for openness about... Read More
After a sexy dream last night about Tim Lincecum—don’t ask—I started to explore what it was within myself and my romantic relationship I wanted to nurture.
I... Read More
Over the past week I’ve definitely been realigning with this new dream, a.k.a. reality.
The change from ultimate single-hood to reuniting with my love has... Read More
I had one other huge insight the morning of the 5-Rhythms dance class that I did not share the other day.
During what I will call our warm-up, I was grasping at my neck... Read More
Sometimes lessons are gifts, and gifts are lessons.
Today, I received a version of each.
My day began with that beautifully healing movement meditation class I’m... Read More